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When betrayed, we seem to lose faith in life, close our hearts, and refuse other relationships. Overcoming the pain of betrayal is never easy, especially when you have given so much trust to your partner.
The wrong past is something you can’t change, but the bright future is entirely in your hands, so don’t let hurt be a hindrance to your happiness.
Being betrayed sometimes makes us lose faith in life
One of the downsides of friendship is the possibility of being betrayed or deceived by a friend. Being betrayed by a friend is the worst thing in the world, especially when it’s someone with whom you often share your joys and sorrows.
I was betrayed by friends once, and it was really painful. It happened a few years ago when I was still very naive and thought she was my best friend.
Until I introduced my boyfriend to her, we got into a lot of friction which she entirely caused.
I wonder what I did wrong. Until that fateful day, she blatantly challenged me and said she liked my boyfriend too.
I was stunned by this, and took a long time to calm down, and our friendship was officially broken. Of course, my boyfriend didn’t mean anything to her, but the pain of betrayal is still etched in my…