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Surely each of us has let anger take control for a while and then regretted what we did. You remember nothing about the temper for the next few days when the fit passes.
But those who are hurt by you, unfortunately, will remember that moment for life, even in a small corner of their hearts.
That’s why people say, “anger is so wise.” Indignation, if unrestrained, will cause us to lose a lot of things: valuable relationships and irreplaceable soulmate friends.
Does anger, in addition to the loss, give us anything? Are you so foolish that you are willing to sacrifice essential people in exchange for an offense to satisfy your ego?
Then, until you look back, you will blame yourself for just a few moments of irritation to losing the person who truly loves you. It was too late. There was no way to save it. Worse, they will leave us with a wound that cannot be calmed down.
I have lost a close friend because of the harsh sentence of letting go in anger. Waiting until they left, I realized I had to pay an overpriced price.
They might not have hugged me now if I hadn’t been in a hurry, and I wouldn’t have regretted it so much.
