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I spent years fumbling through the dating scene and wondered why I’m so awkward and what I can do about it. It turns out, there are many aspects of my own personality that I could work on to make things more interesting. Check out these nine tips to turn awkwardness into attraction.
# 1: Make eye contact & get close
Eye contact is one of the most important parts of flirting because it shows your interest in them and commitment to them during conversation. Plus, proximity conveys intimacy — something we all yearn for! Simply by standing closer you will notice a shift in their demeanor too; they’ll probably mirror your stance and get closer too.
# 2: Initiate physical touch
Don’t wait for them to take the lead, especially if you are interested in them. Getting in touch with another person is a great way to break the ice. Whether you’re clapping your hands together or giving someone a high-five to say hello, this casual contact will let them know you’re not intimidated by them. It’s very simple and nonchalant, but it says otherwise.
#3: Touch their arm when explaining something
Touching arms during conversation is another great way to show interest because it shows your desire…
