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9 Signs It’s Love, Not Lust

CiFact
4 min readSep 17, 2021

How do you know if you’re in love or just lusting after someone? Is it safe to say the answer is “yes” if you think of yourself as a romantic person and generally like to believe in the idea of love?

Well, it might be too soon to say for sure, but there are some ways to tell. Let’s take a look at nine signs that might indicate whether your affection is purely romantic or actually something more meaningful. It’s always better to be safe than sorry, so if these signs apply to you, now might be the time for your suspicions about this relationship! If they’re not true, then just keep reading about how young adults are trying new things today.

1. Your mood depends on your phone.

There are days you’re so content with everything, and then there are days where you might feel empty, empty except for the thought of texting your special someone. When they text you back, you’re instantly glowing with happiness. You can’t wait for them to ask how your day went or what you’re doing. If this sounds like something that happens to you often, it’s probably best to examine your feelings deeper. Are these feelings based on an emotional connection beyond the physical relationship?

2. You can’t stop daydreaming about this person.

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