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15 Thoughts A Narcissist Keeps Hidden Before Revealing His True Self
Most narcissists are able to maintain the appearance of being confident, poised, and even humble. But don’t be fooled by their polished facade; narcissists come equipped with a complex system of hidden thoughts designed to keep people off their trail. They don’t let just anyone into their world, but once they do share that side of themselves with you it is often game over.
Take a peek behind the scenes for some insight into what your narcissistic partner may be thinking when he’s looking at you with love in his eyes. It might give you some answers about how to heal from narcissistic abuse.
1. They’re a Scapegoat
When a narcissist first meets you they have the overwhelming urge to place you as some kind of sacrificial lamb. By doing so, he gets to avoid being held accountable for his or her actions. But as soon as the guilt complex sets in, the object of their affection becomes some kind of scapegoat. And if they can’t find some way to blame you for it then they’ll simply move on and find someone new to blame.
2. They Can’t Afford You
Narcissists will always put themselves first and put a high value on themselves above others. So if they feel that you’re putting them in a position where they can’t…
