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15 Season Why Do We Propose with Rings and Not Something Else?
We use rings to propose because they say forever without saying a word. A ring is a circle it never ends. That’s the message. That your love, your promise, has no end either. And yeah, I know, it sounds a little cheesy when you say it out loud. But that’s the real reason.
I remember when I was younger, I asked my uncle why he proposed with a ring and not, like, a necklace or a bracelet or something more useful. And he just smiled and said, “Because rings stay. Necklaces fall off. Bracelets break. But a ring? You see it every time you reach out for something.” I didn’t get it back then. But I do now.
The first time I held a ring meant for someone else, I felt nervous, not because it was expensive or shiny, but because of what it meant. It wasn’t just jewelry it was a contract, but not one you sign. One you wear. Every day. On your hand. For everyone to see.
But here’s the part they don’t want you to know… the whole “ring equals love” thing? That wasn’t always true. Rings weren’t always about romance. They started off more like property tags. Yeah, wild, right? A way to say “this person is taken,” like a label on a shelf.
I’m not saying that to ruin it. I’m saying it because I think it’s important to know where things come from before we keep doing them blindly…