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Being Transparent with your spouse does not always go smoothly, but it is possible to create a life together with all the necessary feelings intact. So sometimes, when you start to feel that your partner might be getting angry or upset about something you’re saying and feel like things are about to spin out of control, here’s what you can do:
1. Be completely honest.
The more you can be completely open and honest about everything in your life, the easier it will be. If you’re not open with your spouse, then they are most likely not being completely honest with you because they don’t want to get into a lot of conversations that might upset or scare you.
So, what can happen if this continues is that they’ll try to keep everything to themselves and deal with their own issues and any problems on their own, which can ultimately cause huge misunderstandings between the two of you.
2. Be sensitive about your feelings.
This is something you should never take for granted. Being aware of your partner’s feelings, how they might be feeling about things, and what state of mind they might be in, will help you know how to approach them.
You want to be sensitive in every way because when you are really sensitive about…
