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Opinions vary on who has the most power in a relationship, but one thing is for sure: they’re not having any of the fun. It’s simple; if you want to pursue somebody, you need to know what they like and don’t like. So here are 10 things you should never do around your crush:
Comment on their appearance
Remember this guy? He thinks he looks really good with his shirt off. What would your crush think? Probably not much…if they even notice at all. If they comment on your appearance, that’s one thing, but don’t expect any return compliment.
Make yourself look desperate
You need to be careful not to make yourself look too dependent on them. Just because you have a crush doesn’t mean you should call, text, or email them at all hours of the day/night asking for their attention. If they were interested in you romantically before, which is why you have a crush on them now, then they are likely to be interested again if you give the space/time for that interest to continue.
Talk about other people
If you bring up another guy or girl, don’t make it sound like you want to get back together with them. If your crush is still interested in you, this information will start to erode the foundation of that…