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If you find yourself in a relationship with someone who has a habit of overthinking things, there are plenty of ways to help the situation. Here are ten practical methods that can improve your relationship.
1. Don’t Complain
The first step to improving your relationship with someone who overthinks is not to complain. Complaining can be a major contributor to someone’s problem of overthinking.
If you are always complaining about something, you will be pinpointed as the problem and begin to take the blame for everything that goes wrong in the relationship.
You might say that your partner overthinks because of this or that, but instead of looking for blame, focus on ways that you can improve your relationship without the aid of someone else.
2. Make Time
When you are in a relationship with someone who overthinks, it is important to make time for that person. If you don’t make time to be with them, they will start to feel isolated and lonely, which can lead to more overthinking behavior.
Make sure you have time for dates, to go out on the town and do things together as a couple. Make sure your partner has enough time with you so that he or she begins to relax and unwind instead of going…