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There is no cure for addiction, but there are ways to get help. If you realize that the person who has impacted your life the most has done so negatively and you want to end things, there are a few signs that could be one of the first signs of addiction. If this sounds like something you’re struggling with, then consider these 10 signs that you may be addicted to someone.
1) The relationship is getting more and more secretive
Sometimes it can get a little too easy to get with someone and like the intimacy that comes with being in a relationship. That’s not how it is supposed to be, though. If you are finding yourself in situations where you’re hiding your relationship with this person because they’re married, they could be going through a divorce or their children don’t approve of them being involved with you, then there is probably something wrong.
Addicts commonly choose relationships where they feel like they have already got everything figured out because of the way relationships are supposed to work. This leads them to pick someone who is unavailable for whatever reason so that there isn’t any more work for them to do.
