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We’re going to cut to the chase because while being a good date is one of life’s greatest pleasures, it can also be a lot of work. With so many Tinder dates coming and going in the blink of an eye, it’s worth investing some time into making sure you get it right from the start. That’s why we put together this list of 10 dating tips to help you have a successful yet low-pressure first date.
1. Keep the conversation flowing
After the initial awkward silence, it can be easy to freeze up and not know what to say. It’s best to avoid topics that can easily cause an argument, such as politics, religion or money. Most people love talking about themselves so get them talking about a recent vacation or a hobby they are passionate about.
If you’re having a hard time thinking of something to say, it’s always safe to share what you’re drinking. “The best date I had was at a wine bar when I was 20 and my date ordered the most expensive bottle of wine on the menu we split it.”
2. Will you go out with me again?
This part is tricky. Men in particular need to be careful with their follow-up texts, as it’s very easy to think “just one more” and end up sending a barrage of texts that are far too eager. Remember, dating is supposed to be fun don’t…
