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When you first meet someone new, it’s natural to have your guard up. You’re wary of judging people too quickly and hiding your own faults to avoid getting rejected.
However, as the years go by, you’ll notice that those with confidence tend to attract others in a myriad of ways, they are more charming, make friends easier, and are perceived as more attractive than those who lack self-esteem.
This information is something I’ve compiled after years of personal experience…
1. They don’t put themselves down in front of others.
Too often, people with confidence have a negative outlook on life. Although they may not be happy with their own traits, hearing about the things that are wrong with them can make them feel even worse.
So if someone is constantly telling you that you’re stupid, or insecure, or whatever it is that makes you feel crappy about yourself just shut them out and say something like: “Well alright then, I hope your life turns out okay!”
Honestly, it’s fine to talk badly about yourself from time to time, I mean it’s not like we’re perfect. But in general… if you’ve got that kind of attitude, don’t be surprised when nobody, not even someone you just met wants to hear about it.
