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It’s easy to make mistakes that make you come across as insecure, needy, or “crazy.” You can avoid temptation by knowing what turns guys off and making sure you don’t commit these 15 common mistakes. There are plenty of things guys like (like using compliments), there are other times when they prefer your silence (for example, if they’re trying to tell you something important). With the right amount of common sense and planning, the temptation will seem less appealing!
Of course, it goes without saying that if the guy is already showing signs of frustration or turning away from you then he doesn’t want anything more with you. Just because a guy is “tempting” it doesn’t mean he actually wants a relationship with you. Take him off the list of potential boyfriends and move on.
1. You Talk Too Much
Talk is cheap and often too much of it is a turnoff even when you’re trying to be charming or funny. If you’re not listening, then nobody hears your voice for very long. Having a conversation with a girl who talks more than she listens can be frustrating for both parties involved. Guys like a girl who’s confident enough in herself to know when to keep her mouth shut and when to talk about something important!
